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Well, I think if you have time for the “benefits” don’t you have time for a relationship? Just because you live far away doesn’t mean you can’t be together. It just means it will be harder, but you just have to call or skype or something. If your just friends with benefits, what does that even mean? Like does that mean he can date other girls at the same time or what? Just think about what it means to you and your situation. Also if you aren’t comfortable it wont work out. So my advice is if you have time to be such good friends why don’t you have time to be together. I would just try and make the long distance relationship work.

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No don’t take him back. Because once a cheater is always a cheater. No matter how much you like him he was a jerk for cheating and chances are he hasn’t changed. And it seems like a pretty big coincidence that he realizes he “made a mistake” right after he gets cheated on. It seems very convenient for him. I don’t mean to be blunt but I’m just trying to keep you from being hurt again. You can do better!

Maybe try and tell your parents before the doctors appointment so that way it wont be shock. It’s good to get help when you harm yourself because your parents and doctor will make things better. Don’t freak out because doctors are there to help you.

I think you have some big issues your going to need to overcome. To start if loquishasha is your friend don’t assault her. I don’t care what she did to you never physically fight friends. You need to find a way to both express your feelings in a non-violent way. Try communicating next time instead of pulling out her weave. Next, maybe you should stop drinking if you make such bad decisions under the influence of alcohol. I can understand why loquishasha would be mad at you because sleeping with her boyfriend was wrong and you were honestly a very bad friend to do that. So I think she has a reason to be mad. I think you should worry about helping yourself control your emotions and drinking issues, then worry about loquishasha and your friendship. Get yourself in a stable state. In addition, remember to respect yourself, meaning don’t put your body in danger by drinking or fighting. Both could damage your body and push you to make more bad decisions. Right now you need to look at yourself and ask if this is the kind of person you want to be. If not, it is time to change. I don’t mean this in a rude way but, I think you need to get yourself together.

Well first off I have a lot of anons so I apologize but I’m not quite sure which one you are. But I think that when guys send mixed signals you should just keep flirting but let him make the next move. Just wait a little, because it could be total simple, like maybe he just wants to study alone. But, you don’t want to be pushy, so just wait a little while and see what he does. Also I could give better advice if you remind which message on my blog is the beginning part of your story. 

TO ALL ANONS. PLEASE WRITE SOME KIND OF PEN NAME SO WHEN YOU WRITE BACK AGAIN I KNOW WHAT THE BEGINNING OF YOUR STORY WAS. (ex. Lonely Girl, Boyfriendless Bianca, or whatever you get the idea) thanks thanks thanks.

First off love is never stupid. Lots of people fall in love with their best friends and personally I think people who are good friends before tend to be better partners, not saying that people who don’t know each other well before dating can’t be good too. But, if he has a girlfriend I wouldn’t try anything on him. Just try and move on, talk to new guys. Also most teenage relationships don’t last long. Him and his girlfriend will probably break up. Sorry everyone, not to be negative but its just what I’ve observed. And when they break up you can jump right in and make a move at the appropriate time. Finally don’t be expected to be happy seeing them kiss, I wouldn’t be, that girl is stealing the guy of your dreams, its perfectly healthy to even dislike her. So go out meet new guys, and just keep your self busy. It’s going to be hard but you’ll get over him or he’ll get over his girlfriend. Things wil get better.